for couples questioning whether they should get married or not
You think you’ve found your soul mate, you’ve been together for a while, and you feel like you’re ready to take it to the next level. You’re thinking about moving in together, or maybe even marriage!
Maybe you’re not sure if you and your partner are on the same page. You love each other, you spend time together, but there are important conversations that you haven’t had yet or have tried to have that have been met with resistance.
You’re right to be afraid if you’re winging it and wanting to dive into marriage with your eyes shut hoping for the best, filled with the illusion that just because you have great chemistry that you should be married.
Men and women communicate so differently, and they have very different views on what has to be in place to get married and why you should get married in the first place. And it’s not what our culture tells us.
Men are not “commitment phobes.” They want to be married as much as women do, BUT they want to marry the right person.
Men and women have different experiences with commitment, and if you don’t understand them, you might just walk away from a potentially good thing because of a miscommunication.
Or you might force a relationship into marriage that really isn’t right for either of you.
Both of these scenarios happen all the time. It’s a major reason great relationships fail to launch, and bad marriages happen.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. If you think you’re ready to get married, then take the time to learn about yourself and your partner and the differences between men and women in order to get on the same page, so you can make a great choice in a life-long partnership.
Whether this is your first marriage or your 4th, I work from a strong belief that you can Consciously co-create a great long-term relationship that is a win/win for both of you when you have the right foundation and skills to make it work.
That’s why I created the 90 Day Precommitment Program to help you make relationship choices that work for both of you. The program includes, coaching, education and mentoring for your marriage success. (Ideally this program is entered together, but you can “fly solo” and get great results.)
Here’s what one happy client says:
“When we moved in together, I knew Mark was the one, but three years later, he hadn’t popped the question. I’d even said I didn’t want to move in unless we were headed in that direction. The more upset I was getting the more Mark pulled away, and I was ready to walk away. I was 36 and I wanted a family. That’s when I started working with Kimi. She helped me to find a place in myself where I felt confident instead of depressed about the situation. Mark could see a difference and he asked what I was doing. He was impressed, so he joined the sessions too. What we learned about how different we are helped us learn to bring out the best in each other. She helped us get rid of the baggage we both had and we got on the same page! We got married last year and just had our first baby! I’m so grateful that I met Kimi! I didn’t want to lose Mark!” ~ K.S. Sunnyvale, California
To get started, sign-up for your Complimentary Relationship Breakthrough Session and learn what the 90 Day Precommitment Program can do for you!